Just one quick thought and I'm going to get out of here, but OK:
I know what Eliot Spitzer did was against the law. I know he brought embarrassment to himself and his family. BUT, can we get off this kick of making the wife the saint? Its not even her fault. Its just that every time a man steps out on a woman, women get all "you betrayed my trust." OK that maybe true. But it was implicit in the marriage vows that you will take care of a man's "needs" Wasn't it? There is about a 7 to 1 ratio of women to men. If you don't, there are many that will...
Now, taking a marriage vow is sacred to me(with the divorce rate over 50% one would not think so...that's what adds so much comedy to this situation). You are making a promise to God, remember Him? So, I am not condoning infidelity. What I am condoning is for women to hold up their end of the bargain, too. You cant get married and stop having sex with your husband. What part of the game is that? I said in an earlier post that given humans are animals, why is it so hard to believe men are predisposed to spreading their seed? While there is no discernible mating season for humans, men have an inherent urge to spread or in this case bed as many women as possible. Monogamy is a human creation....
With that said, before everyone gets all self righteous on the morals front(you can be that way all you want on the legal side, the bastard did break the law), lets find out what is going on in that household...Case in point: now that you have met Hillary Clinton on the campaign trail and seen that even at her best she comes off as icy, can you really blame Bill for his indiscretions? Take a look at Silda Spitzer. Does she strike you as the romantic, sexual type?
You see its not that i don't think Eliot broke the law or even broke his promise to God. Its more than that. I get tired of this bullshit ass double standard. When a women steps out on a man, its "oh she must have needed more attention, he wasn't there for her. Good for her for finding love"...but when a man steps out, its "hes a dog he is despicable". No, the SOB just needed some "attention"... If you do all you can to make a man happy(sex, food, family, the works) and he still steps out, then the SOB IS a dog and despicable. Many times this is the case, i will admit...but if you don't take care of a man's needs, well then, this type of shit is gonna happen. I am sorry.
What i don't get is: why doesn't sex fall into a wife's duties? Society says that a wife is supposed to do a lot of things And most of all a wife bears a man's children, which takes two to make but carrying and bearing children is so dangerous. I would like to take this time to bestow my infinite thanks to women everywhere for that. But, sex HAS to be part of the deal, FOREVER. It just does...so before everyone jumps on the wife's bandwagon, lets just take a deeper look...
One more thing, umm, all these politicians need to be real careful with the vitriol here. Hey, there were a lot of politicians frequenting that Prostitution Ring...so uh-ra you might want to be Pro-Spitzer. You know, just in case
hmm...I wanted to come off pro-male but i think i just came off like a dick...but hey, not exactly new territory...
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